Overcoming Camera Shyness: Tips for Your Engagement Session

Let’s be honest: not everyone dreams of being in front of a camera. If the thought of posing for your engagement photos makes you break into a sweat — you’re not alone. As Ottawa wedding photographers who specialize in helping shy couples feel relaxed and natural, we’ve got your back.

Here are our top tips to help you ditch the nerves and actually enjoy your engagement session.

1. Choose a Photographer Who Gets You

It sounds obvious, but the number one factor in easing camera nerves is working with someone who makes you feel safe. You’re not hiring a camera operator — you’re hiring a guide.

At Avalon Wedding Photography, we take extra time before the session to connect, laugh, and find your comfort zone. We don’t start shooting the moment you arrive — we ease in naturally.

2. Pick a Location That Feels Familiar

Shy in front of a crowd? Avoid busy urban settings. Instead, choose a spot that feels like you. A quiet park, a wooded trail, your own backyard — anywhere that lets you breathe.

Bonus tip: If you’re already booked at a wedding venue, consider using that space for your engagement shoot too. Familiarity breeds comfort.

3. Wear Something That Feels Like You

Forget trends. You’re going to feel far more confident in something you already love — something that moves well, fits comfortably, and doesn’t make you second-guess yourself every time you shift.

Pro tip: Bring a backup outfit. Even just changing into something cozier mid-session can totally reset your energy.

4. Focus on Each Other — Not the Camera

We’re not going to pose you like statues. Most of our work is built around movement, prompts, and real connection. We’ll ask you to walk, chat, hug, or play — not stand still and smile like you’re in a school portrait.

Your job? Focus on your partner. Laugh. Whisper something dumb. Be yourselves. We’ll take care of the rest.

5. Don’t Skip the Engagement Session — It’s a Practice Run

So many couples think, “We’re shy, let’s skip this part.” But the engagement session is actually your best tool for feeling relaxed on your wedding day.

By the time your wedding rolls around, the camera won’t feel scary anymore — it’ll feel familiar. That’s why we include engagement sessions in almost every collection.

Ready to Feel Comfortable in Front of the Camera?

If you’re nervous, that’s normal. But you don’t have to go through it alone — we’ve helped dozens of camera-shy couples fall in love with their photos.

👉 https://avalonweddingphotography.com/contact Book your engagement session now, and let’s make this experience something you look forward to.